"Are you then assuming your marriage is over ? Being single? "
I'm doing everything I can to strengthen our marriage, but if my husband divorces me than I'm okay with being single.
"Do you subscribe to the hierarchy of relationships ? Or have you tried to make all three of them more or less equals. "
I try to treat them equally.
I feel that you made a good point earlier on. There can be a strong element of favouritism even amongst polyamorous relationships where everybody is supposed to be equal. I am most likely more loyal to my husband.
"I loose interest in my marriage too when my husband is away 4-5 days a week."
Kinda is at home everyday.
Last edited by MrsPOd; 01-13-2012 at 03:25 PM.