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Old 01-12-2012, 10:34 PM
opalescent opalescent is offline
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So SW does not feel he can date me right now. He probably wants a monogamous relationship and that's something I can't do long term. That was one of my concerns about a potential relationship with SW - I can be monogamous while building a strong relationship - let's say for a number of years. But I can't imagine being monogamous forever and ever again. I was not sure of if monogamy was something he required. He did leave the door open to dating if he decides to be poly. I'm rather skeptical that he will move towards poly or ethical non-monogamy - he seems pretty focused on monogamy. I think he was leaving his options open. So we are going to be friends. I expected this outcome but I'm still bummed about it. I'm glad I put it on the table though.
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