Originally Posted by MrsPOd
I'll give an example so that you get some idea.
Bf is insulting and physically dominating at home and she likes this. Bf is insulting and physically dominating around my husband and she doesn't like this. He does it anyway.
Yep, not only do I agree with another poster that this is akin to having sex in front of other people who have not agreed to watch, it is also happening against her will and hence is not okay. Has Kinda told them that he does not wish to wittness them interacting that way?