What, our input has no merit for you? I know you want to hear from "mono men," but... sheesh.
You just posted your questions today (at shortly after 3am in my time zone), and it's still early morning in North America. You will surely get some responses from members who have experience to share, and you are asking for answers that require some thoughtful consideration. Be patient. The day is young.
Last edited by nycindie; 01-12-2012 at 12:20 PM.