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Old 01-12-2012, 02:51 AM
ThatGirlInGray ThatGirlInGray is offline
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Now my husband has been so insanely jealous even to the point where i was forced to drive away all my friends just to keep him from leaving.
To me, this is a HUGE red flag. Any time a spouse cuts off contact with friends, that makes me extremely apprehensive.

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Should i just suffer in silence to avoid a potentially messy confrontation or should i talk to him about my real feelings?
Again, if you feel like you can't talk to your spouse, that's a warning sign to me. It may be a warning sign about you, rather than him, but it's still not a sign of a healthy relationship.

I'm sorry, this probably isn't what you want to hear, but I don't know that poly is the answer to your problem. From what you've written it sounds like there are a lot of issues for the two of you to work on already before you make things even more complicated by adding other people into the mix.
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