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Old 01-12-2012, 01:30 AM
ThatGirlInGray ThatGirlInGray is offline
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With that much experience and that many relationships, I would hope he's very good at communication, so my advice would be: talk to him. Tell him about your concern, or even show him this post. See what he has to say about it. I would think that the person most qualified to decide if he has time for another relationship without short-changing/hurting anyone is him.

Also, since you already obviously have a connection to him and want him in your life at least as a friend, I would think giving a relationship a try would be good, if that's what you both want. At least then no matter how it went you wouldn't spend years wondering "What If??" (yes, I know this is a slightly selfish attitude and I applaud you for being concerned about the other people involved, but you can't live your life true to yourself if you're making your decisions based solely on OTHER people's needs)
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