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Originally Posted by MrsPOd
...my gf doesn't seem entirely happy with the way that our bf treats her. Her communication skills have never been her strongest suit...
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All the more reason methinks you should not give up on this issue.
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Originally Posted by MrsPOd
...My bf's marriage is not overly-strong. It isn't comparable to our own marriage but it really is on its death throes and has been for a few years now.
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I'm wondering if this part of the reason why their marriage is on the rocks.
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Originally Posted by MrsPOd
Bf does occasionally go against the boundaries that he and his wife have set up.
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I assume you mean D/s boundaries, not poly boundaries?
How is your relationship with her? I assume you are not a triad but rather you are dating them both separately?
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"In dealing with resentments, we set them on paper - list people, institutions and principles with whom you are angry. Ask yourself why you are angry."
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