Originally Posted by Nyx
Here it is again. Comparing the dynamics of one relationship with others you have had. You had agreements and ways of doing things and such with all other partners and you consistently believe that any relationship currently and ahead of you is/should have the same dynamics.
I use the same principles that I do in other aspects of my life. If something worked before or is working, then use the working model. If something is NOT working, I need to change something about it. I use experiences from the past to see what works and what does not.
I understand that each person is unique and the way we interact/cohere is just as unique. Things will not always work the same for each dynamic.
Often he had been often bound with fetters and chains, and the chains had been rent asunder by him, and the fetters broken in pieces: neither could any man tame him...and he asked him, What is thy name? And he answered, saying, My name is Legion: for we are many.