Originally Posted by HappiestManAlive
I don't necessarily think it's healthy
It's about as healthy as any other abusive relationship. Probably less healthy since the person being abused has less inclination to seek help. I guess it can be a bit more "grey" since it floats their boat. Then again, boat floating can involve some cruel and destructive stuff. I'm thinking of the Armin Meiwes case specifically.
Probably isn't the thread for a complex moral and ethical discussion on the extremes of human sexuality.
Originally Posted by AnnabelMore
I would talk to her if I were you, KP. If you're wrong and everything is healthy, well, no harm done, but if you're right then maybe you could really help her. Just take her out for coffee and lay out your concerns in the most respectful way you can.
Good idea. That's what I'm thinking.
Maybe one of his rules is that they can't talk about it? Not the smartest rule to have but it's possible.