Originally Posted by KindaPOd
I don't care about what my wife gets up to.
Well if you don't care what your wife gets up to, I guess you do nothing, however I'm not sure then why you ask here what we think or what we'd do if in your position then, because if I didn't give a shit what my spouse was doing, I wouldn't bother to ask other people what they thought.
If you're asking about abuse, unless somebody is reaching out for help or being obviously abused, it's generally smart to mind your own business. She's an adult after all, and probably knows how to find the resources to get out of a situation if she doesn't want to be in it.