Originally Posted by yogos
I wish she was polyamorous but I'm not forcing her into anything.
Geez, don't here that much. Why?
I think she is just way to new to poly and to your relationship together to know what she wants. She likes to flirt so let her at it... the rest will follow. Give her time, let her explore and see where she goes with it. In the mean time just listen, let her bounce ideas around, try stuff out and see where it goes. There is far more to be concerned about than whether she has sex with other guys or just flirts. Just enjoy the journey with this. That's the best part I think.