Yeah..I'm on the other planet in many aspects (motivations behind polyamory, inability to put myself in a poly frame of mind to better understand) but
totally on the same planet where it counts! Compersion where it is most needed, constant communication, immense love, genuine caring for other people.
I do understand how polyamory works but will not even pretend to "feel" what it means to be polyamorous. I'm monogomous and can't imagine loving someone else intimately..i.e having sex.
I certainly do care about who my Lover is sleeping with and who she might be interested in exploring. That is just who I am and she accepts me in knowing this which makes me smile with a brilliant grin every time I see her