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Old 01-06-2012, 08:04 PM
Vinccenzo Vinccenzo is offline
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Originally Posted by AnnabelMore View Post
Personally, I want to apologize for my use of the word jerkface. :/ I stand by the substance of my post, but name-calling is never called for, and I regret writing with such a lack of respect, especially when there was not good reason to think that Armani was not, in fact, still trying to be a good, fair, and giving partner.
Oh you seem very sweet!

To me though, I try to benefit from that mirror effect situations like this can offer for personal growth. We don't always see ourselves and our actions the way others do. Sometimes the impression is unwarranted and other times we don't want the responsibility that comes with how we make others feel let alone other people knowing we have made them feel that way. When once someone shared a struggle they were having with me caused me to feel defensive over being seen in a poor light by others, it was put to me like this:

"If you don't want people to think you've been being a brat, stop being one and explain yourself!"
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