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Old 01-06-2012, 04:14 PM
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Originally Posted by arondela View Post
To update a bit...I reached out to K, and she is pretty horrified/mortified by the situation. ... We're talking it out and I feel better, and I still want to pursue at least friendship before she leaves. ... He is very remorseful, he feels terrible about it...
So, you're letting them both get away with it?

That shit just wouldn't fly with me. Your sister was there, having a conversation, on the same couch - my goodness. You sound a bit desperate, I hate to say, to be putting up with that shit. I would rather choose to have self-respect and people with integrity in my life over potential sex partners. Why so forgiving?
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