My boyfriend's mom is coming to see him (she lives several hours away). He wants me to meet her tonight. Having mixed feelings about that. His dad has not exactly made me feel welcome, and has spread rumors throughout his family about his son.
I'm not taking any of it personally, but I feel bad for my boyfriend for having to put up with it. I'm just going to try to start with a blank slate when I meet his mom, and follow his lead as to what to say/not say.