"I vaguely regret having settled for mono relationships so many times and wonder how many other wonderful relationships I've missed out on because of that."
SeventhCrow that is so true. Everytime some man is taken off the market its sad and I kind of mourn it. No one should belong to anyone. Poly is a good way to learn about yourself, to learn acceptance. As someone who has had no babies I have room in my heart aplenty. I wonder... are there many polys who are currently raising children??