Of course you are all right. Not that "wait and see" has ever been my favorite advice to accept, but I know you are right. No rush and I AM enjoying the new friendship no matter what. I just wish I did not want to jump him so darn much.
On the flip side of things, we have been doing a lot of family things together. We were all together on Christmas and Saki told me that Jose said this was the best Christmas he has had since coming to the US. That was sweet to hear. We eat dinners together a lot and she and I go grocery shopping together etc. So, we are actually growing together very naturally. I am mad at myself for letting my hormones dampen an otherwise comfortable closeness.