Howdy From Oregon!
Hello! I am sort of new to the poly scene. My husband of 7 years and I recently decided to go poly. Since then he has moved a lot faster than me, which is fine we all have our own pace. Turns out I am toe dipping kind of gal.
Husband has a secondary now with a single mom and I have been seeing a guy for about a month and we are starting to get a little heavy. It is really interesting and fun and NRE is addictive. I am also chatting (we have had a date now) with a kid I go to school with (I am 24 and in college finishing my degree in BioChem/Math) who is in my program as well.
How do you all handle balance? Do you only see one person at a time or do you pursue more than one person? I really like the guy I have been seeing, he is a bit (11 years) older and parents very similar to how we parent and he and his wife have done poly for about 2 years. So it is nice to get opinions and experience from someone who has been around the block.
My husband is 6 years older than me. So older is what I am used to. This guy at school though is my age which is really nice connection wise.
So yeah hello~!