RH, i'm sooo sorry i can't help here (or maybe yes?!) 'cause in italy, very very often, pagans are ashamed even of taking a bath into a "distant-eye" river without their own bath-clothes; some of them are (were, since i do practice it no more) not entering the Sweating tent not to show their naked bodies (but who's watching?!!). ...just imagine what about the "couple game" vs "everyone else"..
of course very few pagan sisterhood branches are not "that way", i was talking about the italian pagan medium effect.
"as long a i live, i vow to die and be reborn, die and be reborn, die and be reborn, over and over again, forever reinventing myself" r.brezsny