Depth and connection are about sharingn in vulnerable ways, something of ourselves that is precious and only revealed in moments of trust. It isn't about having kids, marriage plans, buying a house. This is why to me primary/secondary relationships don't exist in my life; because I have depth and connection with those I feel safe with and trust. This is what having a partner is about to me. Maybe that will make it seem more clear to you PaperGrace?
The lull between NRE ending and RE is a tough one I find. I am always filled with doubt and concern that I have made the right choice staying in the relationship. I usually wait it out and if I continue to be bored and there is no spark of interest then I change the game or move on.
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