Originally Posted by countrygirl
The link to her posting is : http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=19612
We have talked about these feelings in detail before, in fact, just after Christmas. I understand that we each are validated in feeling the way we feel, and I will admit to keeping things on an even keel to try not to further upset what she is currently going through.
You know when I read her post, I didn't take anything she said as a criticism of you and your husband. In fact, quite the opposite. It sounds to me like she realizes her feelings of envy are unwarranted, and came to the group in order to get some insight in order to deal with them.