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Old 01-04-2012, 10:48 PM
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Originally Posted by vanille View Post
What he has wanted since the beginning is a triad or V. Am I perhaps pushing it by wanting to include men as well?
Certainly not! Pushing it? You have a right to ask for what would make you happy and satisfied. And the possibility of being with men is what you want. Did he not pay attention when you told him this:
Originally Posted by vanille View Post
...I'm not even sure if I am sexually attracted to girls.
Geez, why does it have to revolve around only what he wants? Negotiations are about making sure everyone is satisfied, perhaps with compromises on both sides, but that doesn't mean you have to have sex with someone you don't want to have sex with!
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