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Old 01-04-2012, 10:07 PM
ViableAlternative ViableAlternative is offline
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Originally Posted by vanille View Post
What he has wanted since the beginning is a triad or V. Am I perhaps pushing it by wanting to include men as well?
NO. It's a reasonable request. And, frankly, I think equality is pretty important in any relationship. Whether or not you can have that in your current relationship does not mean you can't have it period. There are always other options.

I mean .. boundaries are an issue right? I mean, it's okay for someone to say "Hey. I'm not cool with that" - right?
Of course. Absolutely. And, your boyfriend is TOTALLY allowed to want a lopsided relationship. You are TOTALLY allowed to want an equal relationship. Those wants might be incompatible, but you're still allowed to want them.
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