Here is my fear. He suddenly gets an interested girl (he is still active on dating site). They try it out. He lets me date because he's doing it. Then it doesn't work out with them and he is left alone again. I have a feeling he will take back his allowance and by then I may be attached to this other man.
I can understand him not wanting me to get serious with a guy until he has a girl to take his mind off of us. But I don't want to find myself in a situation where I have to choose between them.
I agree, I'm trying to let him be without interference on my part. I encourage him to talk to me and I try not to judge. Which can be hard since I'm still a little hurt by how things have gone down. I end up feeling guilty for wanting what we agreed to.
In a relationship with Armani for ten years. New to the poly world and excited. Living in New Orleans...