Being bi led pretty directly to being poly for me. I figured out I was bi in late middle school, and by early high school I was actively fantasizing about being in a mff triad because how hot and perfect would that be?? From there I began learning more about the topic of multi-person relationships, learned the lingo, etc, and eventually came to let go of my idea of my "ideal", as so many do.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.