Have you mentioned that it bothered you? We did something similar, New Year's Eve. Hubby and the kids and I sat around and made suggestions for each other, but it was just playful. Mostly because the kids would make a comment and in return their siblings got to. Good-natured ribbing on odd music or show tastes and then some more serious discussions on what we see the other might want to work on. Nothing was finalized though hubby and I did ask each other about what the kids saw as things we should do.
Honestly, resolutions just didn't feel important this year. Like we will make changes and try to make things better for ourselves as we go, as we have all year so why does the New Year make it different?
Me: Late 30s pansexual poly. DH: My husband of 17 yrs and father of children. DC: LDR of +1 year