Originally Posted by Phy
I know ... I know, I know, I know
It's so hard. Honestly, I know how it should work, but every time something like this happens I just can't see what I am doing. I get when someone points out that this and that was a bit rude, dominant, harsh, whatever you want to call it, but no chance to see this in the moment I open my mouth. Because I am just stating my point of view as I feel the others just did. Why do they have to be so sensitive
Just joking, I get where and what the problem is.
You have a HUGE head start on me, it took me about 18 years of marriage to even figure out the problem, much less how to change it.