I've been struggling with my feelings about SW for some time now. On one hand, I'm certainly not over Beloved. And I'm not interested in dating seriously right now. But i will make an exception for SW. I told him some time ago that I thought of him as in a different category than my other FWBs - he had boyfriend potential that the others didn't. I think he was a bit startled and bemused by this. And I was shortly trying to repair my marriage. I continue to struggle with the end of my relationship with Beloved - New Years was always our special couple holiday. So that was really hard. But I find myself wanting more from him than friendship or the FWB thing we had for a while. So I told him that what I really wanted was to date to see if a serious relationship can work between us. He was REALLY startled but did not reject the idea right then. So he's thinking things though. I have no idea what he will decide. Wish me luck!