What I learned on the forum today:
"Secrets and uncertainty are often like invisible chains wrapped around us."
and the expression;
"Its like a turd in a punch bowl, it poisons everything."
I love this place some days.
Had an awesome New Years with two of my partners and a whole lotta poly and non-poly friends.... This year I intend to end reaching out to people and reach in. I am hoping that by doing so people will come to me and ask me to do fun stuff. I am one tired organizer.
I will at least slow down on that anyway... there are a lot of changes coming up for most of the people close to me and I have a need to be present and available to them this year.