As for answering the question.. I have tried to talk to my hubby, but as he is from a very conservative family he is not comfortable talking about it. I have tried to tell him what i like etc, but most of the times he just doesnt wanna have sex. So anything after that is not possible.
Thanks nycindie, i think my issue is not related to polymory. Thanks for explaining.
we dated for 2 years before we got married.
yes we did have sex, but now it has reduced from twice a week to once a fortnight.
he thinks sex is not that important for the relationship.
No my husband doesnt know anything from my break. as we had a pact that we dont wanna know what happened in that break.