The power of veto is a myth. The idea creates the illusion of security to those new to poly such as myself, and the emotionally insecure. The core idea behind the veto when you striip the bullshit out from the discussion is mistrust.
Good luck having a real poly relationship if one of the core agreements is based on Fear.
Freetime. All the time. Every time.
Last edited by Freetime; 01-01-2012 at 09:43 PM.