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Old 11-11-2009, 09:21 PM
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Location: St. Louis area
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Ben speaking here:

I have been told by several women that I "make love like a woman". The first time I heard this, I thought I was being mocked. She had to explain it as a compliment.

As a man, I have greater need for the emotional component than the sexual. I just ended a year and a half relationship with a woman where we never had sex. We slept together. We were intimate on occasion. But we never had sex. It was all me, in fact--she was actually begging me at times. But I didn't feel the emotional connection that *I* needed to "go there" with her.

As it turns out, she was lying, cheating, stealing and leading me on, so I look back and I'm glad that I held back.

So, I'm not sure how I fit into the cookie-cutter on this one.
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