Yeah, that's not fair -- unless it is that you really don't want a gf. If you do, then I think it sucks, actually, and would say it's time to renegotiate boundaries.
The world opens up... when you do.
Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me. ~Bryan Ferry
"Love is that condition in which another person's happiness is essential to your own." ~Robert Heinlein