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Old 12-30-2011, 02:36 PM
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Geminigirl basically said most of what I was going to.

1- If you see this person once a week, there's no reason that on those other 6 days a week why you can't be going out dating (just like most single people do, poly or mono) and eventually meet that ideal primary partner.

2- Until that happens, make yourself your own primary. (This is where I currently am myself.)

3- Get some hobbies and friends that share those hobbies to fill up any alone time.

I've been single for six months now about and while I haven't met anyone that I can see as a primary, there are two that I can visualize being a secondary partner to. And that's great---that's better than completely single, ya know? I say while you work to find your ultimate goal, there's no reason not to enjoy what you DO have!
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