I can't completely break off contact, as that would break up 2 gaming groups, and create many more problems. But I can limit to just the already arranged social group interactions we have.
I am also aware that I may not have a relationship with them after this. It doesn't make me happy, but I acknowledge that this may be the price I have to pay. If I have to, I will.
They have been married for 2.5 years, together for a total 5 or 6. I have been romantically involved with them for 22 months.
No, they have not had other poly relationships.
She does not, she's pretty much turned mono out of insecurity. I am really close to her as well...
the rest of you, thank you for your support.
Part of why he resists seeing a counselor, is because he was forced to see therapists when he was a kid because the other kids were beating up on him and his mom thought he was lying.