Caragh, I'm wondering how it went? Update?
I came out to my parents at Christmas (well, one set of them). They both new both boyfriends and know that we have remained good friends. Both boyfriends love my dad and I know that there will be opportunity to go there with either or both of them in the future.
Current bf's mom had us over to dinner way back when I was previous bf's only girl. Since I've been with current bf, we've been to her house for dinner with previous bf. I think if we ever felt the need to declare, she would be okay. She really is an amazing sort of woman. But I kinda doubt current bf would ever feel the need to declare to her.