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Old 12-29-2011, 07:49 PM
OpenandCountry OpenandCountry is offline
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One of the biggest mistakes I made with my boyfriend in the beginning is trying to keep his relationship with me within strict parameters; he was supposed to be my "f*ck buddy", but we just clicked so well that trying to restrict our feelings was futile.

Keeping within the same spirit, trying to make a relationship more than what it is can be off-putting, as well. Every relationship is different, sometimes you just have to let it grow to see where it will lead, and make sure there is respect/consent/understanding among all those involved.

You and your husband seem like a very understanding, loving couple. Good luck.
Bisexual, Hinge of a Vee with a mono boyfriend and poly husband.
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