Originally Posted by SNeacail
My advice is for you to interview a few Christian marriage/family councelors, that are not in anyway affiliated with your wife's church. If you find one that doesn't creep you out or piss you off, try going to that one with your wife - knowing people like your wife, the title of "Christian" holds more weight and she won't be as ready to dismiss what they have to say.
A while ago, we did try counselling, to try and discuss this church thing - (NOT through the church) its a bit of a long story, but our counsellor showed her lack of interest by neglecting to turn up at our last appointment - I lost interest at that point. :-(