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Old 12-29-2011, 04:03 AM
riftara riftara is offline
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there is a lot of emotion tied up in children being conceived and raised.

I suggest you talk about it A LOT, and you still wont be ready for it when it happens, if you say it can happen, and then what if it does happen even if you dont want it to happen?

you can't plan everything, but you can lay out your boundaries and what you will accept and not accept but don't try to force anything. You can't make a relationship what you want it to be, it just becomes what it will.
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