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Old 12-28-2011, 10:37 PM
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Originally Posted by AutumnalTone View Post
I've never found a relationship without looking for one. Ever. I have never started a relationship when I wasn't looking for one.

Although, I do believe there is something to be said about maintaining a Flirtatious Mindfulness in everyday life. That is, I need to work on pulling myself out of whatever it is that I am focused on and seize upon Opportunities for Flirtatious Behavior. I really suck at it. But fortunately, my wife is teaching me how to flirt. She's an expert.

Of course, capitalizing Opportunities for Flirtatious Behavior like it's some program or method really tells me how bad my mindset is.... boy do I suck.

Anyway, I've had relationships that started on-line and IRL. The ones that started IRL tended to last longer.
Me: 48 - Married, straight, male
Shiela: My wife.
Suzanne: My FWB
Adam: Shiela's LDR

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