Florida has quite an active poly community. I hang out with the PolyTampa crowd-- but haven't made it to the Orlando Poly meetings.
I know Meetup.com is one way to connect with others. During the meetings I love hearing others' stories. How they came out to their family, why they don't come out to their family, how they met their OSO (other significant other), etc.
You're not odd... I've got a theory that a lot of people are poly... they just don't know the name. Focus on what works for you.
I'm in a triad...we live together. In fact, as I sit here, he's on the computer chuckling, and she's curled up in the Papa-san chair clicking... We enjoy the quiet mornings together.