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Old 12-26-2011, 09:07 PM
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What a load of drama. You can't wait for him; it is selfish of him to ask that. Don't let their toxic relationship become a part of your life. Move on. Date. Date many many people. Mourn the loss, but start creating your own life without them. Let it just be a friendship. Love is infinite, and you will find others to love, whether they are partnered, male, female, poly or not. Take the steps, walk away.
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