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Old 12-24-2011, 05:47 PM
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Originally Posted by nycindie View Post
You make it sound like going to see monkeys in the zoo.
aww, sorry you read it that way... I really meant I was hoping to meet and talk to someone who's done it.

Originally Posted by nycindie View Post
Well, if you seem focused only on the sex, I could understand why she would be hesitant. But you do know poly is much, much more than that. From your posts, I often think you are really looking for a more primarily sexual practice, like cuckolding, and not really polyamory at all.
I've been reading on here tons, and yes, I think I'm getting the difference between swinging, FWBs, and Poly. Eek, cuckolding doesnt appeal to me at all!
Originally Posted by nycindie View Post
You could still go to the poly meetup by yourself, if you really want to meet poly people. Make some friends and invite them over! I mean, she brings around all her church people expecting you to hang out and entertain them, why can't you have a poly set of friends and acquaintances you bring around?
Am working on this - I travel a lot, so I am hoping to get to meet some people on my travels, and yes, I'd love to have some people over!
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