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Old 12-24-2011, 03:14 AM
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I don't think a veto is worth a damn without discussion. Just to get up one day and say to my husband "Hey, I don't like this new girl. Stop seeing her." rubs me the wrong way.

I trust his judgement enough that if I really have concerns about a metamour we can address them together. Same on my end. This is all after I have done my own mentalwork when it comes to polyamory in general, so trust me I didn't always feel this way, lol.
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