Originally Posted by riftara
I dont want it to look like Im trying to get attention
Is this something they accuse you of often? Some of your comments about your partners concern me. A pregnancy scare can cause serious anxiety without having to worry about your partners turning into assholes. 2-3 weeks of re-playing ALL the "what ifs" can be torture (that's without you bi-polar issue to consider). I like your plan to tell your husband everything immediately and get his opinion of where to go from there.