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Old 12-22-2011, 05:17 AM
dragonflysky dragonflysky is offline
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Poly or not....I would find this person's behaviors overwhelming and intrusive to my boundaries. It has the feeling of trying to "buy" friendship instead of "earning" it by getting to know each other over time (IF that's desired by BOTH of you.) There's nothing wrong with trying to be friendly or reaching out towards someone your partner's interested in/involved with, but personally I would feel intruded upon if ANYONE came onto me this strong in trying to be my friend.

Under the circumstances you describe, I would find it hard to sort out if my negative feelings about the other person were related to jealousy around the poly aspect of the relationship, or the personality of the other person coming on too strong...too soon.
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