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Old 12-21-2011, 05:50 PM
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I wouldn't be ok with a restriction like that. Firstly I'm not entirely sure how you get to sex without kissing, it's kind of a pre-requisite for me. I think without it I would feel like a hired body rather than a sex partner. Secondly personally I'd be much more comfortable with a restriction of no sex rather than of no kissing. Kissing can be a very bonding experience, it can also be fun and playful and it's something that you can do publicly to show that you care about someone. Sex without intimacy is uncomfortable for many poly people. Our relationships are based around love and depth, not just a quick roll in the hay. (Although a quick roll in the hay can be fun too )
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