Originally Posted by AnnabelMore
I find this premise totally ridiculous if you actually understand what poly is -- loving relationships with multiple people. To love someone and not be allowed to kiss them would be torture to me. If you're not comfortable with a partner sharing intimacy with another, don't date someone poly.
Torture sounds about right. I think the OP is definitely talking about swinging. I can't imagine having a loving relationship and not being allowed to kiss them...I'm not even sure I could have sex without kissing at all.