Hey, I know this Raven Kaldera. I've been to his farm, met his wife Bella there, and went to 2 sessions at 2 different kink/poly conferences, where he and his boyfriend/slave Josh spoke and took Q&As.
Raven is a Dom to Josh. I'm not sure of the dynamic between him and Bella. Raven is an activist for poly, kink, pagan BDSM and transgender issues.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags, F, 60, poly-dating, loving and living with
miss pixi, F, 38
Punk, 42, M (dating since Oct 2015)
and a few more casual relationships