Originally Posted by Ceoli
That latter point suggested to me that you were indeed stating it as more right and valid, which is the point I was arguing.
And it may be a tangent, but still related, and this message board is full of all sorts of treasures in the tangents.
Sorry to give that impression, Ceoli. It has nothing to do with right or wrong honestly. I don't believe there is a right or wrong way to approach relationships between healthy adults. I do believe in recognizing the pressures and expectations that the desire to experience societal "norms" can have on people.
Wow...talk about communication..I am always fascinated by how two people can seem so far off in their understanding of one another. The way you and I sometimes miss read each other (if I can be so bold as to make that statement) is reminiscent of some issues me and Redpepper had in the past. Mis-communication almost broke us up.
I agree..tangents can be good